Years ago I had the privilege of serving on the board of trustees of my church. Like a lot of spiritual communities, each year we would adopt a theme to guide our worship and activities. Recently I came across an old sweatshirt with one of those themes:
“Participants in Creation: Committed to Spirit and Service.”
Not bystanders. Not spectators. Participants.
Every thought, every word, every deed is an act of creating – and creation.
Even reacting is creating. If we are reacting to what we don’t like or don’t want, we are reinforcing the Victim Orientation. In so doing, we are quite likely creating, perpetuating or engaging the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT)™ (aka the Karpman Drama Triangle). Whether Victim, Persecutor or Rescuer, we are participants in creating more drama in the world.
By adopting a Creator Orientation and focusing on what we want to create and how we choose to respond to our life experiences, we are participants in conscious living – and encourage others to do the same through our thoughts, words and actions. As a Creator, Challenger and Coach, we lift our relationships to a more resourceful reality by engaging and participating in TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) ™.
As we go through our week, let’s pause every few hours and ask ourselves: what am I participating in creating?