In our last two essays, we wrote about how to shift from two of the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) roles to the TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® roles: Victim to Creator and Rescuer to Coach. This week we tackle the third role shift: Persecutor to Challenger. Many people tell us they resist embracing the Challenger role […]
This week we want to share more about the Persecutor role in the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) ™. To the Victim, the Persecutor is the “problem” that they are reacting to. It could be a person or circumstance. A health condition, for example, is often seen as a Persecutor. In this essay we are […]
This week we continue going deeper into the roles in TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) ™ by exploring the Challenger. Of the three TED* roles of Creator, Challenger and Coach, we receive the most questions about the Challenger. Readers tell us they resist embracing the Challenger role because they view it as risky or scary. Others […]